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1. I've been
romantic and
imaginative.
pragmatic and down
to earth.
2. I have tended to
take on
confrontations.
avoid
confrontations.
3. I have typically been
diplomatic,
charming, and ambitious.
direct, formal,
and idealistic.
4. I have tended to be
focused and
intense.
spontaneous and
fun-loving.
5. I have been a
hospitable person
and have enjoyed welcoming new
friends into my life.
private person and
have not mixed much with
others.
6. Generally, it's been
easy to "get a
rise" out of me.
difficult to "get
a rise" out of me.
7. I've been more of a
"street-smart"
survivor.
"high-minded"
idealist.
8. I have
needed to show
affection to people.
preferred to
maintain a certain distance with
people.
9. When presented with a
new experience, I've usually asked
myself if it would be
useful to
me.
enjoyable.
10. I have tended to focus
too much on
myself.
others.
11. Others have depended
on my
insight and
knowledge.
strength and
decisiveness.
12. I have come across as
being too
unsure of
myself.
sure of
myself.
13. I have been more
relationship-oriented than
goal-oriented.
goal-oriented than
relationship-oriented.
14. I have
not been able to
speak up for myself very
well.
been
outspoken—I've said what others
wished they had the nerve to
say.
15. It's been difficult
for me to
stop considering
alternatives and do something
definite.
take it easy and
be more flexible.
16. I have tended to be
hesitant and
procrastinating.
bold and
domineering.
17. My
reluctance to get
too involved has gotten me into
trouble with people.
eagerness to have
people depend on me has gotten me
into trouble with them.
18. Usually, I have
been able to put
my feelings aside to get the job
done.
needed to work
through my feelings before I could
act.
19. Generally, I have been
methodical and
cautious.
adventurous and
taken risks.
20. I have tended to be a
supportive, giving
person who enjoys the company of
others.
serious, reserved
person who likes discussing
issues.
21. I've often felt the
need to
be a "pillar of
strength."
perform
perfectly.
22. I've typically been
interested in
asking tough
questions and maintaining my
independence.
maintaining my
stability and peace of
mind.
23. I've been too
hard-nosed and
skeptical.
soft-hearted and
sentimental.
24. I've often worried
that
I'm missing out on
something better.
if I let down my
guard, someone will take advantage
of me.
25. My habit of
being
"stand-offish" has annoyed
people.
telling people
what to do has annoyed
people.
26. Usually, when troubles
have gotten to me, I have
been able to "tune
them out."
treated myself to
something I've enjoyed.
27. I have
depended upon my
friends and they have known that
they can depend on me.
not depended on
people; I have done things on my
own.
28. I have tended to be
detached and
preoccupied.
moody and
self-absorbed.
29. I have liked to
challenge people
and "shake them up."
comfort people and
calm them down.
30. I have generally been
an
outgoing, sociable
person.
earnest,
self-disciplined
person.
31. I've usually
been shy about
showing my abilities.
liked to let
people know what I can do
well.
32.
Pursuing my
personal interests has been more
important to me than having
comfort and security.
Having comfort and
security has been more important
to me than pursuing my personal
interests.
33. When I've had conflict
with others, I've
tended to
withdraw.
rarely backed
down.
34. I have
given in too
easily and let others push me
around.
been too
uncompromising and demanding with
others.
35. I've been appreciated
for my
unsinkable spirit
and great sense of humor.
quiet strength and
exceptional generosity.
36. Much of my success has
been
due to my talent
for making a favorable
impression.
achieved despite
my lack of interest in developing
"interpersonal skills."
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